Comment by someone
    who disagreed with this webpage


    I read your webpage How Far Is Too Far a few months ago when I had just started to date my first boyfriend. I was working at a children’s camp and so was my boyfriend. We were both Christians. I got my first kiss. My appetite grew. What you said in your webpage felt so cruel. How could I keep myself away from someone so attractive and who makes me feel so good?

    Well, I wish I had believed your advice, and my own conscience. We broke up and I now know that what I did was wrong. Lust makes one a slave and it’s purely selfish. In the beginning it feels wrong, but little by little your mind eases and soon you’re sure that you are doing the right thing because it feels so good. I think it may have been sex that ruined our relationship. We didn’t discuss it; we just knew that we “loved” each other so much.

    I thank you for your webpages. I should read them with time and thought.

    I hope that some day I’ll meet someone and that this time I’ll remember what I’ve learnt.

    Sex is something in which you can’t trust yourself or your friend. It’s like fire that burns if you give it a chance. It’s better to keep it totally down than to play with it.

    Published by written permission from someone who e-mailed me.

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